Misbehavior Clues
Undue AttentionSpoken: I belong when you pay constant attention to me and/or give me special service.Unspoken: “Notice me. Involve me usefully.” Misguided PowerOutward behavior: I belong only when I am the boss, or at least do not let you boss me.Unspoken: “Let me help. Give me choices.” RevengeOutward behavior: I don’t belong and that hurts; Read more about Misbehavior Clues[…]